Another update, it's been single digits here in the am and truck will start. Is really really not happy about it. Cough chug cough cough. Smokes like crazy (un burnt fuel). Grid heater unplugged btw.
It smooths out and a min or so then cleans up and runs fine.
Today I completely removed the factory grid heater and replaced everything with the Glacier Diesel Performance intake.
I also installed their grid heater that's now in the cold boost pipe.
Fired it up and same thing, cough chug cough cough smoke out the wazoo (yed that's a word).
SO, I thought well what if the alternator is just not up to the task of running the grid heater as well as the rest of the stuff on start up?
15 volts with no load at 1600rpm should be enough but what if?
So I replaced it with a brand new one.
Same problem same voltage.
Unhooked the 12v lead at the heater and no problems so I know they're isn't a short in the relay or to the heater.
I can touch the lead to the heater when the relay clicks on and it runs like ass.
I'm about to find some tracks to park it on.
sent from my mobile thingy while picking my nose.