If this guy does all chrom moly shafts and u joints the shafts and u joints should be at Dana 60 strength. On paper at least. I don't really have the money to test that kind of thing, let alone money period. It could be the Ford 9 inch that I was thinking they make soft gears for or maybe a D-60. Something popular.
You still have the small d44 size u-joints, which happens to be the location where I have seen the most breakage in the D44s I have dealt with in off road applications. That is assuming that you are comparing a 30 spline d44 to a 30 spline d60 too. The advantages of a d60 or 609 become even greater if you start comparing a 30 spline d44 to a 35 spline d60 both with chromo shafts in them. If you end up with shafts that are durable enough in a 44, then I'd really expect to see the weakness would move inward to the R+P.
I would say that a chromo d44 is roughly equal to a stock shafted 35 splined60.
Soft gears are available over the counter for the 9" and d60 applications. There may be more as well, but these are two of the most popular drag race axles so it makes sense. Like I said before, you can have anything made if you want to, but it comes at a cost. At the cost of getting some custom gears made, you could be pretty far along in building an axle out of common, readily available parts.
BTW - there should hopefully be some some nice, strong, 9" gears coming soon that aren't the standard soft gears. I'm not sure on what the time schedule or price is yet, but I know a guy who is working on bringing them to the marketplace.
Converting a 9" for a front axle would be cheaper than a HP 44 front axle? I agree a 9" would be better, but I would think it'd cost big bucks. Never the less he's got the most powerful 5.9 out there. So I imagine he has money to spend either way.
Nowhere did I say it would be cheaper than working on a 44, although it could possibly be, depending on where you get your parts from.
Building your own housing and doing all the setup work yourself will result in a much cheaper 9" steering axle than what the OP was looking at when he wanted to buy a bolt in replacement axle that was complete, which is the same thing that I said before. You even quoted it.